Hannah (part 1)
This week, we began walking thoughtfully down a hallway.
The walls of this hallway are lined with portraits of various women and
men. Behind each portrait is a story. And behind each story is a worshiping
heart.
We can learn from these very ordinary humans, and
what we learn will help you and me get a better grip on God's design for
us. We'll understand more about how we can make worship a way of life.
Our first portrait was of two sisters. The second
portrait, which we'll begin looking at today, is of two wives. Here's
their story, written just below their picture:
She had cause to be bitter: She was barren. Not so,
her husband. He had the joy of several children from another marriage.
Her childlessness was clearly her fault, not his.
Fortunately for him perhaps, but unfortunately for
her, his children and their mother lived nearby. The close proximity of
these two rivals brought them into constant contact with each other.
You can readily understand how unpleasant their contact
was with each other. One of them had several children - but the other
had a devoted husband. Each felt incomplete without what the other had.
The woman with children took every opportunity to
tease and antagonize the wife who was childless. Perhaps only the wife
who has also been denied motherhood can appreciate the anguish inflicted
by a vicious malcontent. It comes in many ways: verbal barbs, condescending
innuendoes and disparaging looks.
It may seem unusual, but when the extended family
got together for special days of the year, both women showed up for the
festivities. Of course, this forced them to be near each other also.
These holidays were particularly difficult for the
young wife who had no children. The other woman had no mercy, taking delight
at these family gatherings in driving the nonmother to tears and upsetting
her until she could not even eat. Year after year, this same sad scene
was replayed. For the nonmom, it was a wrenching experience.
Have you ever wondered why God allows these things
to happen to good people - while He seems to let people with nauseating
morals and rancid character have everything they want?
The plot thickens. In I Samuel chapter 1, we discover
that the man involved in this tragic triangle was named Elkanah. Elkanah
means "Whom God possessed." Now, why a man whom God possessed would choose
to have two wives at one time is a puzzle. J It was not one of his smarter
decisions. (He obviously had not read Matthew 6:24, where Christ points
out that "no one can serve two masters"! )
However, such an arrangement was culturally accepted
at that time and place. In spite of its legal permissibility, though,
the relationship of these two women demonstrates clearly that people are
people no matter what the century. Putting two women like that together
is like combining a delicious banquet with a sensational roller coaster
ride: They simply do not mix!
The spouse who had children was Peninnah, meaning
"Coral." Have you seen coral rock? Coral is beautiful - but it's very
abrasive. As we read this story, it seems that Peninnah was true to the
dark side of her name. She was as abrasive to Hannah as coral rock is
to tender flesh. Hannah, by the way, means "Gracious," and as you'll see
soon, she too lived up to her wonderful name.
In those days, men were known by their father - "Jacob,
the son of Isaac, the son of Abraham" etc. In contrast, women were known
by the children they bore - especially sons. That, in a nutshell, captures
a major aspect of their culture in those days: Men were known by their
lineage, and women were known by their production.
Any of us who have worked in sales or manufacturing
know how it feels to be measured by our production: It's great if we're
producing well - and awful if we're not.
Well, in this situation Hannah felt awful. Peninnah,
her rival, was producing. Hannah was not. No matter what she tried, she
did not become pregnant. It was not lack of desire, it was not lack of
effort, it was not lack of opportunity and it was not lack of technique.
It was, simply, lack of results. God had closed her womb.
© 2007 John Garmo. If you would be interested in using this article, please contact us at Info@MissionToChildren.org.
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